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How Men Rescue Sex Energy By Creative Expansion (9 Tips)
“I’m sorry,” she says, getting out of the shower, “I’m just not in the mood.”
It’s so frustrating. It’s like you’re completely opposite. The stress of uncertain times makes you want to escape.
But she’s lost in a world of worry and bills.
Is this lack of desire more than the pandemic?
You dig for clues.
Your suspicions are correct. Look at that. Women in their forties would rather sleep than have sex.
Nice. Where will all this pent-up energy flow?
Keep reading. Find out how to turn this rejection into an opportunity for creative expansion.
1. Self-reflect and Heal
Look at the facts. This was a rejection of an invitation to intimacy. Resist the urge to get angry, grow bitter, or become silent.
You sent your partner an e-vite, and her response was I’m not coming.
The tiredness, worry, or stress dampened her desire. This denial is not a reflection on you or your job as a provider or partner.
Yet, this energy released in intimate acts is special. Avoid the temptation to waste sex energy pouting or venting. You can self-reflect and use this energy to…
